How To Pick Your First Dance Song

Picking your first dance song can be stressful and hard considering how many songs are available. The best way to make this decision is to think of yourselves as a couple and pick a song that means a lot to both of you as you listen to it. The first dance is your special moment when everyone is watching and it should be a great memory for years to come. There are a few different directions you can go while making this decision. You could pick a song about romance such as “Everything” by Michael Buble, a song that reminds you of a special moment (first meeting, a vacation or a specific event that means a lot), a classic song such as “The way you look tonight” by Tony Bennett, a more recent song such as “I’m yours” by Jason Mraz, or go for a fun song that reflects your personalities such as “Grow Old With You” by Adam Sandler.

Youtube has countless videos of first dances that could help you pick:

Dont’s

Choose a long song

Choose a song because it’s popular/trendy right now

Feel the need to pick a song that everyone else knows or likes – it is about you not them

Do not stress about it

Do’s

Consider if it is possible to dance to and it’s a song that you can listen to for the whole song

Choose a song that speaks to you

Research the lyrics – some break-up songs sound very romantic in the course

Make sure you both love it

Make sure the band can play it (if you are having a live band)

Practice dancing before hand

Practice dancing and moving in your wedding dress

Plan ahead! Don’t pick your song only a couple weeks before your wedding. Plan it at least 4 months before your wedding so you have lots of time to listen to it, plan out your dance, and make sure you truly love the song

Some songs that are great for the first dance:

I can’t help falling in love – Elvis

From this moment – Shania Twain

Kiss from a rose – Seal

My heart will go on – Celine Dion

Unforgettable – Matt King Cole

I will always love you – Whitney Houston

Everything – Michael Buble

Marry you – Bruno Mars

You and me – Lifehouse

I’ll be – Edwin Mccain

When you say nothing at all – Roman Keating

Chasing Cars- Snow Patrol

All of me – John Legend

How do I live without you – Leann Rimes

A Thousand Years – Christina Perri

Bless the Broken Road – Rascal Flatts

This I promise you – Nsync

Only you can love me this way – Keith Urban

I won’t give up on you – Jason Mraz

God gave me you – Blake Shelton

The way you look tonight – Frank Senatra

Angel eyes – Jeff Healy

Unchained melody – Righteous Brothers

Amazed – Lonestar

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Another great source for fun first dance ideas – Canadian Bridal Directory