With 40 weddings (and counting) in experience there are a lot of things we see, and encounter. There are a lot of little problems that we solve that no one will ever know about (i.e. the bride) and little joys, celebrations, and mini melt downs along the the way too (Don’t worry, hey, we all need a moment, planning a wedding is a big deal!)
We’re started a list ourselves of advice we’d give but we surveyed some wedding peers as well, and have a post full of advice from wedding pros!
“Focus on what the day is really about. Be in a state of thankfulness. Don’t get stuck on the details, or that the centre pieces are exactly centre. Remember that all those people are there to celebrate you, and that you’re marrying the love of your life. Guaranteed you’ll have a great day if you do this”
Amanda, Amanda Douglas Events
“Engagement photos are a must! Not only do you have a chance to create some fun memories and have a keepsake from a blissfully sweet time in your lives, but you also have a chance to get to know your photographer and their shooting style in an informal setting prior to your big day! Think of it as a test run for the most important photo shoot of your life!”
“Eat, eat, eat! I know your big day is coming up and you have everything planned right down to the placement of the spoons, but don’t forget to eat! Ask a family member to be in charge of watching over you as your wedding day approaches. Ask your eager, helpful grandmother to make up some quick meals for the fridge. Not only will your skin glow as you walk down the aisle, but you’ll skip the burn-out and enjoy your day to the fullest!”
“If you’re planning a slideshow for your reception or brunch the next day, don’t use an old-school powerpoint. Start gathering photos several months ahead in order to tell the story with photos from growing up, your dating years, and engagement! A 10-minute slideshow can include quotes, colours or themes that match your personalities and tie it all together to really add to your evening of celebration”
Sasha Golding, Owner, Silver Frame Productions
Don’t be afraid to ask questions and communicate! If something doesn’t feel right, if you want to change something, don’t be afraid to ask! So, if you want to move start times, want to add extra hourly coverage, want us to know a family dynamic etc. that is great! For me, there is no such thing as over communicating these types of things. The more we (photographers) know about your wedding day, the better we can document it!
Thera’s Photography
“Invest in a wedding planner! No, but seriously, the stress and agony that couples put themselves through is too painful to watch sometimes. If your budget does not call for Full Service the least you can do is give yourself the gift of a Day Of Planner. Trust me, after all of that work the last thing you need is stress on your wedding day!”
“After your hair is done, hair/head piece is in, make up complete, gown is on, you need to pause – take 30 seconds, look in the mirror, soak in the moment. After the craziness of the day is over, you’ll be glad you did”
Hi Amanda,
Great post, and thanks for featuring our quote! I have shared it on our facebook page :). Keep up the lovely work, as always!